A man who overthinks everything except the moments that matter.
I build businesses, take apart things that probably didn’t need taking apart, and insist I have a system for most of it. I also think a drive with no route, a dish neither of us can cook, and nobody checking the time sounds like a very good evening. Those two facts have never been reconciled.
So: a collection of things we could do, places we could go, and memories we haven’t made yet. No five-year plan. Nobody gets filtered out at the end, because that was never the point.I made a system for spontaneity
Which was, obviously, a terrible idea. One button hands you somewhere to be, something to do there, and one complication nobody asked for.
80 combinationsRoll it →Two — The moodboardImages to Recreate With You
Places, rituals and little adventures I’d like to share with somebody. Pick the one you’d want to do first.
26 imagesOpen →Three — The deck
Twelve-ish questions, swiped
Like the app you came from, except I went first. At the end you get a card of your own: where we agreed, where we didn’t, and why I answered the way I did.
12 cardsOpen →Four — Choose your ownOne evening, three decisions
A short story where you make the choices. It ends with how I think the evening would actually have gone, which is not the same as a score.
03 chaptersStart it →Five — Side questsGive me something to do
The part where you make one of these actually happen — to me, specifically, whether or not it goes well.
6 kindsSet one →Six — One questionYour turn
What is something you changed your mind about, and what changed it?
Answer it →In the board right now: Cooking together · Dancing badly · Road trips
I will improvise the recipe
Then insist it was intentional, and make you taste it before I admit anything.
I own a ukulele
The gap between owning an instrument and playing one remains an ongoing research project.
A trail and a change of scenery
Far enough that the routine stops following us. That is the whole ask.
I want to know why it works
People, businesses, bad decisions. Usually there is a simpler answer than the one I arrived at.